Childhood Memories

Chahta Elder Stories: Rebecca Hattie Nahwooksy

Published January 29, 2008

Eveline: Today is January 29, 2008
Hattie, you will talk but, first tell your name and the name of your father and mother. When you tell that, then we’ll begin.
Rebecca: My name is Rebecca. Rebecca Hattie Nahwooksy and my mother’s name is Rena Mae Noah, and my father is Ellisman Noah. My grandfather is Robert Jacob Sr., and my grandmother was Lacin Crosby Jacob.
Eveline: Where were you raised?
Rebecca: (What’s that?) Holly Creek Community is where I was born and raised.
Eveline: When you were still a child at home, things were done differently then than they are now. What do you think are some differences?
Rebecca: What is different (What’s that?) is when I went to school compared to today. And living at home we loved one another. That is how it was and now it’s different. As a child, my grandmother would (say) “Always be mindful (respectful) of all people.” It’s still the same today.
Eveline: What do you believe is different about school?
Rebecca: When I went to school (What’s that)… when I first started going to school, I only spoke Choctaw, I didn’t know any English. So, now what is different when kids go to school the teacher does teach the children and that is what is different.
Eveline: Again, as a child, what did you play with?
Rebecca: What is it, I would take a stick and dress it up with clothes and pretend to carry a baby and play like that.
Eveline: I used to make mine (my dolls) the same way. When my mother died, an elderly woman about the same age of my mother was with me and told of playing with corn husks and making clothes for it. She told me about how she and my mother would cut the lining from clothing (to make doll clothes). When others were not aware they would cut those up and make clothes. That’s what they did a long time ago.
Rebecca: That’s true, fabric/material was treasured. And so, my mother would (herself) sew clothes for us girls. And so, with the leftover fabric we would gather them up and we would dress up the stick and that is how we used to play.
Eveline: What were you going to tell? What were you going to tell us?
Rebecca: When I was a child.. (What’s that?) there used to be alot of us at home. All of us, my mother had a lot of kids. And so, there were 9 of us. Also, my grandmother, my grandfather, my uncle, there were many of us. When we ate, there were 14 of us. We would all gather at the table and eat. And then, if it was time to eat, we all ate, if not, we didn’t eat. And so, that is how it is different now. Now, the child and adult do not eat with us. That’s how it is different. And so, because there were a lot of us kids they would divide up the food. (What’s that?) I had five brothers and 4 sisters so there were many of us. They divided the food so there would be enough to feed us. However, we did not get full. But, because we loved each other we did not get mad at each other. And, if we did get mad at each other and fight we would get a spanking and we remembered that.

And so, we used to behave, and kill a hog, my grandfather would corn feed the hog. The hog (what is it?) (I need to see it).
Henry: penned, penned, keep it penned in.
Rebecca: And then he corn fed it and it would grow and then it would be killed. And that one would feed all of us because there were many of us. Grandpa would prepare the nipi shila – salt meat. Then, he would slice pieces of side meat and cook it up for us to eat. Then, again, my aunt was the one who made bread herself and it used to be very good/tasty. And then because we would be going to school we would (what is that?) like a water container, called a bucket. They would fill it and we would carry it to school. As a result, we would not be hungry. And because of all that (What is that?), Grandpa was very skilled at whatever he did. Even into old age, even grandma too.

Grandma didn’t have any eyesight. Even so, she still was skillful. And so, as I was growing up, even as a child, I looked at my grandmother and I would always say when I grew up I want to be like her. I said it to myself in my mind. And I kept saying that, then my grandmother would say “Sit here.”, because my hair was long. When she said. “Sit here.” and I would sit there, and she would braid my hair. My hair was so long it was down to here. (Illustrating length). And say, “Sit here.” she would comb my hair and then finish braiding it and then would touch/stroke my head. And so, when I reflect and see that, and know the truth, my grandmother always prayed for me. Because of that, not once did I ever get mad at an elder. Today, my mother is old, I do not say things or get mad at her. I don’t want to say anything because I love her. And all of that.

Furthermore, the food i was talking about, she would raise chickens. And so, we had a lot of chickens. And so, when we were going to eat the chickens, I used to chase the chickens. And sometimes there were many of us. Because there were a lot of us, we caught the chickens. And also, Mommy would say “twist their neck”, I never learned to do that, I did not kill that chicken. And (What is it?) again, put it in the hot water and pluck all the feathers. Also, on that, I used to dread that. In doing so, however, when that chicken got finished cooking, I did not dread that. Because it tasted so good. Also, my younger brother and my uncle would catch fish, kill a squirrel, rabbits and all of that. And so, we always had meat, and it tasted good. And then, although i was small I learned to (What is that?) skin /peel the squirrel. When it came time to clean fish, I learned how to clean fish. And then so, today, when I married my husband, I taught him how (to clean fish).

(What is it?), and so then once a month, my grandpa would buy and feed us soda pop. And it was good. Another time, a long time ago, there was a kind of candy (What is it?) called chicken something, that (candy) chicken used to taste very good. That would only be bought once a month when we ate it. Even though it was very good, and we wanted more, we couldn’t (have it). And so, I think my grandfather and grandmother and all of them were very smart.

Even so, Mommy whenever she was going to cook, she didn’t buy from town, but she used to cook things. And so, in the summer we would pick blackberries and then apples and we used to have plums to pick. (What is it?) How do you say ‘blackberry’? Then, when you finished cleaning them…
Eveline: walakshi
Rebecca: That too, you made dumplings and then with the big pot you canned them. We used to have alot of them (canned items). And so sometimes when no one saw me, i would get into them. Because there were forks at the barn I would go in when I wasn’t seen. And so it was, I came to realize that Grandpa worked in the fields. And so, there were vegetables, beans, potatoes, corn and what you called peanuts you know, that came from the ground. And we used to help Grandpa.

And so, when it seemed the potatoes were ripe, we would rub something on it, I don’t know, however, while they were lying with the white on them, we would put the potatoes up in the barn.

Although I didn’t know anything (What was it?). However, I knew about the work and i would always help.

For sure, long ago, both grandma, grandpa would always say to us, “All you kids, do not be lazy”. They used to say, “If you’re lazy, you will not have food to eat.” They would tell all of us, “When you grow up, and you are lazy, you will not eat.” And so that is probably the truth. And so today, that’s what I tell my child. You know, I still remember a lot of things.

And so, it’s true, now things are different. The children are different. We didn’t talk back to our elders. We didn’t talk back because we would get a spanking and that was good; they loved us. They loved us so we obeyed the adults. So, I grew up with good behavior.

And so…

Eveline: I want to ask a couple of things; others might want to ‘ask’ as well. Didn’t you say, “side meat”?
Rebecca: mmhuh (Acknowledgment
Eveline: That one, what was that?
Rebecca: (What was that?) it was the hog…
Paula: (Not the liver?)
Rebecca: When you say ‘side’ today in English, I guess you could say “side meat”.
Eveline: Oh, is it really? Yes
Rebecca: Today, we completely cut up the hog meat, cook it and we really like it.
Eveline: And again, you said you hunted for wild game, one was squirrel and a rabbit. How did you kill the rabbit?
Rebecca: When we hunted rabbits us kids would be barefoot, we were going to run. And then we would see a rabbit. When the rabbit started running, we would chase it. We picked up a stick with that stick, we would look for the hole. And because he is going to go into the hole, we chased him. When the rabbit went into the hole, we (what is it?) stick (Henry: fabassa) yeah, what do you call the stick…

(Henry: forked stick) like that yes, similiar to that, we would stick it into the hole. With the rabbit in there we would start twisting the stick and when we caught him, we would take him out. Then we, you know, we (What is it?) we killed it. And that’s how the rabbit (What is it?) We used to chase many of them.
Eveline: That is how I used to see it like that. My mother would twist and take them out.
Rebecca: Yeah
Eveline: Questions
Bob: What kind of gun did they use to have?
Rebecca: Gun?
Bob: Gun. Wooden gun or …or was it Caucasian?
Rebecca: Yes. It’s called a .22, we used to have one. That was all he had, just one. That’s all he had. Even that, the .22, he loved it and would take very good care of it, because that was the only one, he had.
Bob: Because there weren’t many bullets.
Rebecca: mmhuh. Even money.
Bob: Yeah, like that.
Rebecca: Even though there were very few shell/bullets.
Bob: What about deer did they hunt deer?
Rebecca: As for deer, not very much. I believe they might have gone once. And so, I did not grow up eating deer/venison.
Eveline: So, would anyone else want to ask a question? If you have a question, first tell your name so we’ll know who you are.
Rebecca: What is your name?
Bob: Bob Ludlow
Abe: I’m going to ask a question. My name is Abe Frazier. My question is, how did they wash clothes.
Rebecca: As for water, for the water we would (What is it?) water… (What is it?) (Eveline and Paula: wash pot, Henry: flowing) It was not flowing water. We would completely fill up the washpot and place kindling under it then build a fire. Then, when, it would finally get hot (What is it?) (Paula: tub) (we) would fill up the big tub with water. Long ago, there was no what you call ‘washing powder’. Soap.
Lillie: Homemade soap.
Rebecca: They used to call it homemade soap. Lye soap. (Group: lye soup.) Mom got that one. And so, they would make it themselves. And so, when they were going to wash clothes, they would fill the tub up with water and (what was) called a washboard, they would stand it in there. They would put in all the clothes (Henrry: scrub board) called a scrub board shok, shok, shok… (imitating the sound of the scrubbing).
Eveline: mmhuh, mmhuh
Eveline: …was like that, I used to do that too. I washed a lot of clothes, helping Mama. I helped Mama. Us young girls back then would do whatever our mother did and helped. And after the clothes were washed, we would get clean water and put it into another tub. Then, we rinsed. Mmhuh (rinse) what do you say? We would finish by wringing it and hanging them up.
Abe: Even if it was in cold winter. My mother would be outside washing clothes. I guess it was like that?
Rebecca: Yes, that’s how it was, cold, a lot or kids. We had a lot of kids and so…
Abe: There were a lot of clothes?
Rebecca: Lots of clothes, however not that many, (What is it?) …I only had 3 dresses/items of clothing. Mama made them herself. And so, for the boys (What is it?) for them to wear, she made them herself. Because of that we didn’t have a lot of clothes. We only had one pair of shoes. They were a treasure to us.
Eveline: Anyone else?
Henry: My name is Henry Willis. As for you, you probably didn’t live in town? Out?
Rebecca: No.
Henry: I heard you lived outside of town. Yes, I don’t know what to ask, since others have already asked. Did you say you used to walk to school? How far did you walk? How many miles?
Rebecca: One.
Henry: One?
Rebecca: Mmhuh.
Henry: You must have lived close to town? Or not?
Rebecca: No
Henry: Oh, okay, you went to the ones that were outside?
Rebecca: mmhuh. The schoolhouse (What is it?) There was one like a house used to be there. (Others talking) One room.
(Henry: ulhti) – (government room) I learned in a one room. Yeah, each one was called a vhlti (government) would begin with one. (grade?) Mmhuh. I used to go to one like that too.
Rebecca: And so, every day I walked. We all walked, however, (What is it?) I wanted to learn and then…
Henry: About how old were you when you went there?
Rebecca: It’s been a long time.
Henry: The reason I ask is, you know, as for me, long ago, it was different when I went too. Also, when i ask the day, month or the year I might know or can remember about that time time. And so…
Rebecca:19…what was it? I believe it was around 1955.
Henry: Okay. Around then, I too finished school probably close to 50. However, I believe I’m older than you. I was just 21 when I got out of school; that was after several times of quitting. So, yeah, you should know I was about 4 years following (or behind).
Rebecca: As for me, as for me, (What is it?) I don’t know, today, I don’t know numbers. And even as you kept saying that I didn’t know. I didn’t how to read that. But, as for now, I’ve learned, one, two, three, four, that’s all I know even though I didn’t know. We weren’t taught that, and so, i don’t know that. I am now beginning to learn.
Henry: All or a lot of it we do not speak so we have forgotten. I know you have heard a lot of it. Because of going to school, we have forgotten. And so, sometimes it’s hard to answer back. And so, I went through (school) around then, what you saw (experienced) I saw that too. Sometimes it was difficult. Sometime around then it seemed like there were some buses/cars. However, it doesn’t seem like it was not that long ago, seems like it was recently. And so, I was going to ask you something and have forgotten. How did you usually take your food, meal, food?
Rebecca: When I went to school?
Henry: Yes
Rebecca: Mommy would get up early in the morning, (what it is?) cook the meat and would make biscuits herself, including whatever meat and that’s how we used to take it. What is that? Because there were a lot of us, what you call a gallon size, because there were a lot of us kids and so she would fill it up and we would carry it and so that is how we would eat.
Henry: What about your books, writing papers and all of that, did they provide that for you or did you buy it yourself back then?
Rebecca: It was not provided to us, we ourselves with much difficulty, my mother would get them and give it to us. Then sometimes, the school apparently would have purchased them and would only give us one.
Henry: Yes,Yes, and then…
Rebecca: They would give us one tablet (of paper).
Henry: And so, what kind of clothing?
Rebecca: What?
Henry: Thick clothing, clothes, material when hot…what?
Rebecca: We didn’t have fabric that was thick/heavy. Just (What is it?) It was called ‘cotton material’ and that was it. When Mommy made it, it was hand sewn.
Henry: And so, like now, cotton material is valuable.
Rebecca: Yes, it is.
Henry: Because there are a lot of dresses produced nowadays. I was going to ask you something else, that’s all others may want to ask.
Eveline: Henry, you were saying ‘government’. (asking Hattie) did you know what he meant?
Rebecca: Uh, no
Eveline: Government… tell it.
Henry: A lot of ice, when they say ‘icy’. (misunderstanding)
Eveline: Government
Rebecca: Did you say ‘ice’?
Eveline: ‘Government’ is what I thought you said, like districts.
Henry: Oh, government, government, government, that is said in English. Sometimes you can say district sometimes management.
Eveline: That one, I thought she might not have understood you.
Henry: Yes. Some can say government and so, there are alot of different ways to put and use the words together and you can know and understand the meanings sometimes. However, there are some who know it means government.
Eveline: I said that because I thought she might not know. Does anyone else have something they want to ask? If not, that is all. Thank you, Hattie.
Henry: Oh, another thing, I just want to tell her. One thing you said about the stick iti fabvssa.
Rebecca: Yeah, Take the stick of wood and twist it. I think we all know. If we didn’t want to be hungry, we chased rabbits. That was long ago, and I have forgotten.
Eveline: Okay. Thank you.